If you cannot follow the required model of behavior that he expects from you, then you might consider moving to another city or going on a short vacation, as you need to avoid depression and burning out too.
He is, instead, keeping his options open, which means you might be building a relationship with someone who could flee at any minute at ruin what you have we have built so far together.
Also, we are currently in a big city, but the move would be to a much smaller mountain town.
Description: Just gently caress his strands as you sift through them with your hands.