Thank you for your advice, it is much better than the condescending ones author of this site gave to the poor woman.
I have proven it over and over again that this is true.
We have to realize that our husbands are separate intities.
Is there anything else that I need to fix.
It was very hard and I took it one step at a time.
Do you want to reconcile—not with the midlife crisis , but with the core person who is your husband? A man who is in survival jeopardy will do crazy things.
It could also be the best thing for my marriage, and if not then at least our separation isn't full of animosity! We had an amazing sex life.
Give up and move on? If I appear needy or whatever then it's going to push him further away.
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